Fresh flowers - Opening a door into the heart of practice
by Kooi F. Lim, The Buddhist Channel, 2 October 2025
Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia -- On new and full moon days, many Buddhists place fresh flowers on a shrine. This simple act can open a door into the heart of practice. For those new to Buddhism, this is not decoration. It is training the mind. It is a reminder. It is a gift.
What the offering means
Impermanence made visible.
Flowers look bright today and then fade. Watching this change points to anicca, impermanence. The body changes, plans change, moods change. Seeing this again and again loosens clinging. As the Dhammapada says, mind leads experience and shapes it (Dhp 1–2).
Gratitude and reverence.
Placing flowers is puja, an honouring of the Three Jewels: Buddha, Dhamma, Sangha. It is a way to remember the refuge that guides practice (SN55.7 - https://thebuddhaswords.net/sn/sn55.7.html).
Cultivating qualities.
Flowers stand for the wish that the mind can bloom in sila, samadhi, and paññā: virtue, collectedness, and wisdom. Some link five petals to the Five Faculties: faith, energy, mindfulness, concentration, wisdom.
Letting go and giving.
We offer something pleasant without asking for a return. This is dana, giving, which trains release in small steps.
Mindfulness cue.
On uposatha days, the ritual of cleaning the space, placing water and flowers, and reciting a verse steadies’ attention and renews intention.
A short offering verse you can use
“These flowers, soon to fade, I offer to the Buddha. As they wither, so does this body. May virtue and wisdom grow.”
How this began
In the Buddha’s time, lay people honoured the Buddha and the Sangha with gifts of food, cloth, shelter, lamps, and garlands. The uposatha, the lunar observance day, was a set time for meeting, hearing Dhamma, and renewing virtue (AN8.41 - https://suttacentral.net/an8.41).
After the Buddha’s parinibbana, devotion at stupas grew. Offerings of lotuses and garlands appear in early reliefs at sites like Sanchi from the Mauryan and post-Mauryan periods. Over time, temple puja across Buddhist cultures included water, lamps, incense, and flowers.
Theravada regions formed regular uposatha visits with flower offerings.
Himalayan and Tibetan practice emphasized offering bowls and tormas (ritual cakes or sculptures, traditionally made from tsampa, roasted barley flour and butter), with flowers as an outer offering.
East Asian traditions placed flowers by images and recited sutras.
The pattern remained stable: flowers mark respect, point to change, and support intention. There is no single start date. Archaeology and liturgy show steady use across centuries.
How to explain it to visitors in one breath
“We place flowers to honour the Buddha and to remember impermanence. Their rise and fade teach letting go and living with care.”
Practice tips for your home shrine
- Before placing the flowers, set an intention: “May this offering benefit all beings.”
- As the days pass, look at the change in the petals. Note the same law at work in your own body and projects. This is not morbid. It is honest. It frees energy for wise action.
- On uposatha, refresh the shrine and recollect the Five Precepts (pancasila): refrain from killing, stealing, sexual misconduct, false speech, and intoxicants. This aligns the act of offering with conduct.
- When you see the flowers during the day, take one breath with awareness and a phrase of mettā: “May all be well.”
Why sound and sight matter less than intention
In the Dhamma, calm does not come from objects alone. It comes from how the mind meets contact (phassa) with wise attention (yoniso manasikara). A flower can stir grasping or can support release. The key is the frame you bring - refuge, precepts, mindfulness, and clear comprehension. Please read SN36.6 (https://suttacentral.net/sn36.6) for the teaching on attention and feeling).
A final note for newcomers
If you do not have a statue or a formal shrine, place a single flower in a bowl of water. Sit for a few minutes. Bring to mind the refuges. Recollect the precepts. Let the flower be your teacher of change. Let the act be your training in giving. Let the quiet be your training in mindfulness.
May your uposatha be steady. May your practice reduce greed, hate, and delusion. May the mind learn to bloom where it is.