Former Buddhist monk creates home for 85 abandoned children

By Kimberly Winston, Charlotte Observer, Aug 20, 2015

Boston, MA (USA) -- Imagine the Dalai Lama hand-picking you to teach Buddhism in Boston.

<< The HBO documentary “Tashi and the Monk” tells the story of a former monk and the children he takes in. Courtesy of HBO

Then imagine turning your back on that to open an understaffed, underfunded, overburdened school for orphans and other abandoned children in a corner of India so remote it takes three days to get there from the nearest airport.

That’s the story of Lobsang Phuntsok, a 30-something monk who runs a children’s community called Jhamtse Ghatsal – Tibetan for “garden of love and compassion” – in the foothills of the Himalayas.

How that story turned out is the subject of “Tashi and the Monk,” a short documentary that is showing for about a month on HBO. In it, Phuntsok and a small staff do the best they can to care for 85 children, some as young as 4, who are orphans or have been given up by families so poor they cannot feed them. He calls them “uninvited guests of the universe.”

It is a label Phuntsok shares. The film shows him visiting the children’s dormitory and telling a bedtime story – his own.

“Once upon a time, there was a very naughty little boy,” he says, as children shoulder each other to get close to him. His mother was an unwed teen who threw him in a trash heap. He was rescued by grandparents who saw him through a difficult, angry childhood as best they could before sending him to a monastery as a last resort.

It was there, as a Buddhist monk, that his life changed. And while he did spend several years teaching Buddhism in the United States, he has since hung up his monk’s robes to return to this very large brood, to be the father he never had.

British filmmaker Andrew Hinton and German filmmaker Johnny Burke made the film in about three weeks, following the children from lessons to prayers, and trailing Phuntsok around the school and on visits to nearby villages.

Phuntsok cannot accept every child he is asked to take. Deciding whether a child’s situation is dire enough to take in is the hardest thing in his life. Sometimes, he says, he does not make the right decision.

Hinton was also drawn to another story he saw unfolding at the school – that of a 5-year-old half-wild girl named Tashi who had been found abandoned in a nearby village, eating dirt. Her mother had died and her father, an alcoholic, rejected her. Phuntsok brought her – the 85th child – to the school. The film focuses on their relationship.

Central to their story is the idea of loving compassion – a central tenet of Buddhism. Buddhists are taught all beings are equal, valuable and worthy. “Compassion is the wish for another being to be free from suffering,” the Dalai Lama has said. “Love is wanting them to have happiness.”

Hinton, who is not a Buddhist, said witnessing loving compassion in and around the community of Jhamtse Ghatsal deeply affected him. He and Burke sponsored Tashi. Now they receive notes and drawings from her a couple of times a year.

“The transition we saw there was remarkable, and Tashi has continued to integrate and make friends,” Hinton said. “She’s losing her feral wildness and settling into herself.”